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I think I need some class.

August 22nd, 2006 by Barry Freed · 13 Comments

FishWell, not that kind of class.

Like I said before, I’m living alone for the first time (other than when I was an R.A.). Because of that, my daily routine has changed significantly. I’m finding that I have a lot more free time, and I haven’t done a good job filling in that time yet.

That’s why I think I need some class. Classes maybe.

I’ve taken classes at the Boston Center for Adult Education before, and I think I’d like to do that again. The last class I took was a workshop with Oliver Stone, but it was more of a lecture series than an actual “workshop.” So this time around, I’m going to sign up for some classes that are more hands on.

1. Digital Photography: The Next Step
I’ve been playing around with my digital camera a lot lately, and though I love the experimenting and learning, I am beginning to get frustrated. I know exactly what I want out of a shot but can’t quite get there. I’d really like to be able to do more with the camera and less in Photoshop.

2. Gorillas Up Close
I don’t think this needs an explanation. It’s Gorillas. And they’re up close. Enough said.

3. Public Speaking
I don’t really have a fear of public speaking, and I actually enjoy it. But I haven’t done any type of public speaking in a LONG time. In January, I’ll be speaking to about 80 or so law firm administrators about Blogs. I’m really excited to do it, but at the same time a bit terrified. I only have to present for 15-20 minutes or so, but the presentation will be a panel, with experts on Employment Law, Law Firm Marketing, and Finance.
I know I won’t have any trouble talking about blogs and law firms [shameless plug: my other blog is actually called lawfirmblogging.com and it's about, well, blogs and law firms]. But it’s the initial awkwardness and nervousness that scares me. When it comes to public speaking, it really is about setting the tone. I want to seem comfortable and confident, and if I don’t come off that way in the first two minutes, it could be a trainwreck.

4. Cooking for Singles
I’m not so sure about this one. See, I love cooking. Even if it’s something I don’t like, I love the challenge of making something from individual parts. But now that I’m just cooking for myself, I either make something really simple, or end up having a ridiculous amount of leftovers that I end up throwing away. So at first glance, I thought this class might work for me……
but then……
I saw this line: “Enjoy wine with your meals, and leave with great recipes, new friends, and maybe meet that “special someone” while chopping carrots.”
Yeah. If this is a situation where people are there to hook up with the cooking part as just an excuse, I think it would be a little creepy. Maybe I’m totally off on this one, but my mental picture of what it could be isn’t something I want to be part of. Still not sure.

5. The Spirit of Getting Organized
This is probably the most important to me right now. Like I said, I have more free time now, and that means more time alone. More time alone means more thinking, and more thinking leads to more new projects. Right now I have a lot of new ideas that I want to explore, but am just not yet organized enough to execute them. Right now I’ve got the following projects on my plate:

  • Book Idea- I think I have a great idea for a book. Not something I’d have to sit down and write….more of a collection things…..hard to explain unless I’m talking face to face with examples. I guess you could think of it as a coffee table book (not about coffee tables), but the subject matter is very broad, yet well-defined. Yeah, I did a great job at explaining that one, huh?

    I need to get together with a good graphic designer/photographer/editor/psychic (you know, someone that can read my mind to understand what I’m trying to say, since I’m doing such a bang-up job at describing the thought) to talk about this. Preferably someone that, like me, has the ability to completely suspend disbelief for a while, and can believe that it can happen.

  • Business Idea- I am working with some people right now on an idea that has to do with online shopping. I bet you’ve had an “I should have thought of that” moment before in your life. A product or service comes out and you slap your forehead thinking you could have done that. Well, this is one of those ideas. I am 100% certain that what I’m proposing is GOING TO HAPPEN. It’s just not being developed anywhere yet. So I’m trying to develop it myself.
  • Gallery Show- I really don’t have much to do for our upcoming show in October, but I will have to do some work. For those that don’t know me well, I’m one of 2 directors of the Gallery of Social and Political Art in Boston. I used to be very active in the gallery, but over the last year I’ve done nothing at all. In fact, I considered myself “retired” from it. A couple of months ago, the co-director asked if I’d be interested in putting on a show. She had been working on the gallery while I was “absent”, and managed to get a grant and two volunteers who wanted to do a huge amount of work. So I’m back in.
  • Web Service/Site- I have an idea for a blog aggregation (is that a word?) service that uses XML, RSS, and JavaScript to connect blogs by relevance to topics. See, that’s better. I explained that one pretty well, right? Yeah.
    The idea is to have a site and service that is able to group blogs by topic. I also want to be able to create the equivalent of blog “teams” that can blog on a specific topic, event, product, movie, etc. I’ve been working on this for about a year now, and it’s still not entirely defined.

Okay, sorry for that long laundry list of things I have in mind or want to do. I think this post is more for me than for anything else. Now that it’s written down and online, I will be forced to look at it and actually sign up.

Time for caffeine.

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13 responses so far ↓

  • 1 Jenny // Aug 22, 2006 at 11:38 am

    That digital photography class looks perfect. That looks exactly like something I want to take.

    The cooking for singles kind of creeps me out …. and makes me sad “learn how to cook healthy meals for one.” OMG I just died a little. It’s a good concept for people who can handle that, but I think I would get too sad for everyone (btw, Hi I’m Jenny and I get irrationally sad about things).

  • 2 Beth // Aug 22, 2006 at 12:04 pm

    I need to live in a real place so I could do real things like take classes. I’m always so impressed when people do awesome stuff like that with their free time. As opposed to, like, sleeping, which is what I do.

    Except that cooking class sounded sad to me, too, Jenny. =( But then I am 26 and still have a hard time convincing myself that inanimate objects don’t have feelings, so really I should be quiet.

  • 3 Jenny // Aug 22, 2006 at 12:05 pm

    BETH. I always feel bad for inanimate objects. You not being quite makes me feel normal. Or at least having company on the not normal side.

  • 4 Barry Freed // Aug 22, 2006 at 12:15 pm

    Beth,
    They don’t have any classes down there? I guess there’s always Bingo.

  • 5 Montoya // Aug 22, 2006 at 1:01 pm

    I think the cooking for singles sounds like a lot of fun. There is nothing wrong with being single. Everyone is single at some point in their life. Taking a class with other like minded people(people who want to learn how to cook” sounds great. If the class was called “Stalking for singles” that would be creepy. And you should def write a book. You do have a lot to say about a lot of different things.

  • 6 Barry Freed // Aug 22, 2006 at 1:22 pm

    Yeah, I could definitely have a bad prejudice against anything titled “singles”, but my first reaction is to think of people as very aggressive and eager. I cringe just thinking about that.
    Now if it were a class called “Cooking for just one person” or “The Gourmet Recluse” we might have something there.

  • 7 Stacey // Aug 22, 2006 at 2:02 pm

    How about “Haute Cuisine for Hermits”? ;)

  • 8 Barry Freed // Aug 22, 2006 at 2:35 pm

    Lunch for the Loner?
    Dinner for the Detached?
    Breakfast for bachelors/bachelorettes?

    or we could even be more specific.
    Appetizers for the abandoned.
    Entrees for the exiles.
    Dessert for the deserted.

    And finally we can do wine pairings.
    Chardonnay for the companionless.
    Merlot for misanthropes.
    Pinot for the solo.

    I’ll stop now.

  • 9 Beth // Aug 22, 2006 at 3:24 pm

    Jenny, thank god it’s not just me. My can of Diet Coke and I are waving hi to you.

    There *are* some classes here, but mostly for shuffleboard and preventing gout.

    By the way, dude, I am both an editor (officially) and a psychic (unproven, but you just have to go with me on this). So if you ever want to run your book idea by me….

  • 10 Barry Freed // Aug 22, 2006 at 4:10 pm

    Excellent. I will be contacting you soon. I hope it’s one of those ideas that doesn’t just sound good to me. Like vertical parking. Didn’t go over so well with the masses

  • 11 jo // Aug 22, 2006 at 5:50 pm

    I sometimes think it would be easier to teach a ‘cooking for singles’ class over the ‘cooking for couples’ classes that I teach now. None of that husband and wife competition, arguements about who is listening or not listening or better yet, the newly coupled-couple for whom each others bodily parts get far more attention than the one on the chicken they should be cooking.

    Don’t fear the class, it’s just the Cont. Ed marketers trying to stir some excitment and fill the class - Trust me it is a lot less creepy than you are imagining and I’d say most of my classes are pretty evenly divided between men and women most of the time regardless of the title of the course.

    I do however love ‘Appetizers for the abandoned’ as well as ‘Lunch for the Loner’, I’m stealin’ ‘em!

  • 12 alleyesonjenny.com » Blog Archive » Things That Make Me Irrationally Sad (Alternatively Titled: Reasons Not To Date Jenny) // Aug 23, 2006 at 8:54 am

    [...] Yesterday I somehow started a short dicussion in the comments section of another blog. It started with a comment about how the description of a class offered by the Boston Center for Adult Education made me totally sad. Ridiculous right? (Please, the class is called “Cooking for Singles” and you “learn to prepare healthy meals for one”. OMG it makes me want to die. Alone. Which I already established in yesterday’s entry.) [...]

  • 13 Stacey // Aug 23, 2006 at 9:05 am

    Being a red wine fan, my favorite was “Merlot for misanthropes”. :)

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